What is Polarity In Relationships?

What makes a relationship work is having things in common. This is great for when we want to feel emotionally connected.  What makes a relationship passionate is having differences.  Polarity within relationships helps to create an attraction between two couples.  So the more opposed the energies are between two people (masculine vs. feminine energy), the stronger the attraction is within the relationship. 
 
When two people have a similar polarity, such as both are more masculine, then the attraction between the two people is reduced. Yet the attraction is maximized when one is very feminine and other very masculine. Polarity is what keeps the passion of the relationship alive and helps to increase attraction and intimacy.
 
These energies are not based on gender as any person may identify with being more masculine or feminine.  Yet this energy is something we need to cultivate for ourselves.

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            Masculine                                                                                                           Feminine

Physical Characteristics and Energy

Strong physical presence,                                                                Open, free, flowing, full of life energy
centeredness, rigidity, and a feeling of                                           sometimes more nurturing, sometimes
unwavering purpose and strength                                                  more wild and free

Primary Driving Force

Masculine essence is primarily driven                                            Feminine essence is moved primarily
by direction in life, or by a life mission.                                          by emotions in an intimate relationship
                                                                                                             The Feminine force is about opening to
​                                                                                                              love and giving love.

Focus

Focused on one mode only at a time                                              Flow: Interruption does not exist
and the single task at hand.                                                              because you are in a constant state of
                                                                                                             flow.
Looking for trouble: Sees a problem                                               Looking for love: Ultimate way to 
and wants to fix it (even when there                                              magnify radiance and beauty.
​isn't one).

Goals

Masculine energy seeks release from                                             Feminine energy is based on attraction
the burdens of life and relationship,                                                and enchantment, drawing others in
from the constraints of life.                                                              through opening of the heart to beauty
                                                                                                              and love.
The masculine strives to break free to                                            The feminine wants to fill up with love
ultimate ecstasy and freedom. They                                               energy and attention.  The feminie
wants to be empty and let go.                                                         force is about opening to love and
​                                                                                                              giving love.

Desires

Responds to challenges, comes alive at                                         Desires to be noticed and feel 
the edge, and when challenged.                                                     attractive.
Loves competition to test themselves                                            Lives in a world of sensation, the body
and break through barriers.                                                             connection to the flow of elements 
                                                                                                             and the natural forces.
Wants to possess.                                                                             Addicted to ways of filling her sensse 
                                                                                                             of emptiness.
Addicted to emptying himself and                            
releasing himself into the void.
​Wants to feel appreciated.                                                              Wants to feel understood.

Challeges

Finds it easy to let go and leave.                                                     Hangs onto everything.
Often leaves to soon.                                                                       Often stays too long.
Speaks words vs emotion.                                                              Hears primarily mood and tone. 

​©Robbins Research International, Inc

​If polarity isn’t there, then depolarization occurs.  So finding ways to step further and embracing our masculine or feminine energy can have huge impacts on the intimacy of our relationship. 
 
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